Refresh or Renovate?

 

Sometimes we need or want a change
 
Something to look different.
 
To put a twinkle in your eye
 
That’s the way I think about mental health in regards to grieving
 
We have options nowadays:
We can choose therapy with a licensed mental health provider.
I really like that option, especially for individuals who are nonperforming
We get a chance to talk about the past, relive the memories of what occurred with
With the loved ones that are no longer here.
We get to learn tools to keep us functioning.

 

What happens beyond that stage and space?

 

This is where I see grief coaching.
We deal with the future you.
We talk about how you are living with this grief 1 day, 30 days, 3 months, 30 years from now.
We get the tools to take our grief from functioning to evolving.
We get to renovate our current thoughts around grief.

 


 

It’s akin to deciding what to do with the kitchen.

 

A couple of years ago I did a refresh. I painted the walls a new color, switched the knobs on all of the cabinetry, tightened all screws on all appliances, added a clock. The kitchen was refreshed and newer.   
REFRESH = THERAPY

 

This year I am going to replace everything.
I will get new appliances.
I will get new cabinetry.
The walls are going to stay the same but I am going to hang some pictures.
The structure of the kitchen is staying the same but all of the old things that have been
Around for decades are going to get replaced with something new.

 

RENOVATE = COACHING

 

Are you ready to renovate your grief?  Click HERE to find out how.

 

Talk to you soon,
 
Coach Monaye